When wedding plans take over your life, it can be a strenuous time for anyone involved.
Does the thought of silently eloping sound like a good one?
Maybe your fiance isn’t as involved in the coordination process, maybe they’re laying low and trying to wait it out because they have no idea where to start… it could even be that they dropped the big ‘E’ word over a discussion about the hassles you’re going through right now… it might be easier, but you’re a traditionalist.
Are you procrastinating with tasks that have no relation to the wedding?
This isn’t exactly a big issue, sometimes it’s good to take a break. The world does not need anymore Spousezillas running around. Heaven knows Malta is too small to escape their shadow. But if you do find yourself neglecting any to-dos, you probably haven’t realised how overwhelmed you are. Don’t leave it too long, get on top of what you need to do before sitting back and relaxing – you’ll thank yourself later.
Is the issue of cost hindering any of your choices?
Elaborate affairs and intimate gatherings still cost money. Even elopement will cost something. The cost of a wedding is one of the main causes of stress. Even after budgeting and saving. The feeling of having to spend that much money on a dress, or cake… It’s enough to make anyone uncomfortable. It’s not uncommon to feel iffy when discussing finances especially in ties with such a sensitive subject. If only some things in life were free…
Ease the pre-nuptial pains, check out Get Hitched to send a request to a variety of different vendors. Who knows, you might get more than just one box crossed off of your checklist. More time to relax and less to worry when it comes to your wedding.